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Biography Report on J.R.R. Tolkien

by GHG’s youngest member, Owen, 5th Grade

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Hello, today I’m going talk to you about my life. I was born on January 3rd 1892 in South Africa. My mother’s name was Mabel and my father’s name was Arthur. I also have a younger brother who was born in 1894 named Hillary. I didn’t like the very hot air in South Africa.  I even got bitten by a tarantula! My mother Mabel decided it was time for a move. At age three  my mom, my brother and I moved to Birmingham, England where most of my relatives lived. When I was four my father Arthur died. Soon after his death my mom switched religions from Anglican to Catholic. Many members of her family did not approve. In 1899 I took an entrance exam for King Edwards but I didn’t pass. I took it again the next year and passed. Although I loved to read and was smarter than average, in King Edwards I got off to a slow start. I did not like how busy it was and missed my mother’s encouragement. In 1902 I switched to St. Philips school because my mother wanted me to receive religious training at school. Unlike in King Edwards I was far ahead of my fellow classmates. I soon became bored and Mabel  couldn’t afford to pay for St. Philips. By the way, because of her change in religion, my mother’s family would not help her financially. Mabel tutored my brother and I  for a year in hopes to get us scholarships for King Edwards. In 1903 I was back in King Edwards and there to stay. I began studying Greek and Latin. In 1904 the new year started with whooping cough and measles. Nursing my brother and I back to health made my mother ill. She was diagnosed with diabetes. Because insulin wasn’t available then, she was recommended a long rest. When the school year started Mabel weakened more. She died November 14, 1904. At age 12 I was an orphan. Since my mother wanted us to remain Catholic we could not stay with most of her family members. A friend of my mother’s,  Father Francis Morgan, agreed to take us in. My Aunt Bea didn’t have much religious feelings and Father Morgan arranged for us to stay with her. Each summer Father Morgan took us to a beach town called Lyme Regis. I liked going to the beaches there. In 1908 Hillary and I moved to a boarding house. Below me lived a girl named Edith. I began to like Edith and invited her to a tea shop. Soon we had fallen in love. When Father Morgan heard about this he said a move was necessary and the relationship had to end. After I finished at King Edwards I tried to get into Oxford University. I didn’t get in the first year but got in the second year. In Oxford I started reading about mythology from regions such as Norway and Whales. I also enjoyed writing my own poetry and stories while in college.   At Oxford I was in a club called The Inklings. We would drink beer while we talked about what we were currently writing. Now that I was older I came back for Edith. Soon we were engaged. My college days were interrupted by World War I. As soon as I finished my schooling I headed off to fight for England. As newlyweds Edith and I were sad to leave each other but accepted it had to be done. I hated the war. The food was inedible, and we were taught the art of killing. I exchanged letters with my friends. We wrote to each other about how we would make amazing stories when we got home. We wrote about  how we would write a British mythology! Sadly I learned most of them had died in the war. When I got home I knew what I had to do. In order to honor them I would single-handedly write a British mythology. It started with the book of lost tales. This book included several stories that took place in a world I made up called middle earth. Later on I ended up calling it The Simmilarian. I worked on this book most of the rest of my life. Another book I wrote for this reason is The Hobbit. The Hobbit was about a short fellow who lived in a hobbit hole. This hobbit was called Bilbo. Bilbo’s personality is based on mine. Like me he liked to smoke through a pipe. In the story he and some dwarves go on a quest to kill a dragon and take back the dwarve kingdom.  This book became popular and was soon published. Before I knew it the book was being published all over the world. It was praised and I was begged to write a sequel. Of course I  accepted, but did not know what I was throwing myself into. Over the next twelve years I worked on the sequel. I wanted everything to be perfect. Including names, description, and words. Even another famous author C.S Lewis joined in on the fight to finish the sequel! When it was finally finished it was about half a million words! Even after 12 years of waiting the sequel  was a success. It was called the Lord Of The Rings, and had to be split into three books because it was so long! This was a happy time in my life but did not last long. In the middle of November in 1971 my wife Edith was admitted to the hospital. She died on November 29th 1971. On September 2nd 1973 sunday morning I died of a chest infection. The good news was, I died a praised writer and was titled master of fantasy. I am currently the only person to have two books on the 20 best selling paperback. Four years after my death the book I started almost 60 years earlier, The Simmilarin was published. It soon was thought as great as The Hobbit or Lord of the Rings.

Over the weekend of April 19-21, 2013 the Grey Havens Group attended Starfest in Denver, and many members and many guests stopped at our table.  A swirling crowd of Geeks and Nerds and tourists from distant alien shores cast a very friendly aura upon us as they wandered past our table.  Weeping Angels took everyone by surprise.  And one day we heard the sound of singing and drumming.  And when Frodo Baggins and three companions appeared, we welcomed them to Grey Havens.  Everything seemed to shine with a soft light.  And we bowed.  And we said to everyone, “All is now ready.  All are welcome!”

GHG at Starfest 2013

GHG at Starfest 2013GHG at Starfest 2013

GHG at Starfest 2013

GHG at Starfest 2013

GHG at Starfest 2013

GHG at Starfest 2013

GHG at Starfest 2013

GHG at Starfest 2013

GHG at Starfest 2013

GHG at Starfest 2013

For the folk who dwell on the other side of the surface of the earth, their journeys are like our journeys, but not quite.  And when they follow their various paths in life, it is said that they walk upon the soles of our feet, stepping exactly where we step, but not exactly.  Because when we glimpse them in our mirrors, and when they glimpse us in their mirrors, we might think we seem very much alike, but we are not alike; we are not the same in all our different worlds.  But when the Grey Havens Nerd Life Sing-Along happens, the folk on the other side of the earth gather to sing, too.  They sing along with us, and for that moment, we are all the same.  And when we stand up to sing, over on the other side of the earth they stand up, too, and we are standing on the bottoms of their feet, and they stand on our feet, and everyone sings together… all our voices… yes we sing together in our different worlds.  And this must be why the Grey Havens Nerd Life Sing-Along is always such a magical event.  At the GHG “Nerd Life Is the Good Life Sing-along,” Denver Starfest 2013, Saturday evening, April 20:

GHG Starfest Sing Along 2013

This is the voyage, and these are the strange new worlds

This is the voyage, and these are the strange new worlds

The holodeck malfunctioned, but the saga begins anyway

The holodeck malfunctioned, but the saga begins anyway

Music and mythology… it all started with a big bang

Music and mythology… it all started with a big bang

We come in peace, but we shoot to kill

We come in peace, but we shoot to kill

Who’s the bravest little hobbit of them all?

Who’s the bravest little hobbit of them all?

Now we are far over the Misty Mountains cold

Now we are far over the Misty Mountains cold

GHG Starfest Sing Along 2013

The Grey Havens Group sponsored a very special discussion panel at Denver Starfest 2013: “Doctor Who and The Lord of the Rings as Mythologies for England,” held on Sunday, April 21.  A fascinating afternoon passed too quickly.  But it was a warm pleasure to ponder myth and fandom and life with wonderful insights from Thomas Maloney, Heather Maloney, G. Hussain Chinoy, Bill Kelso, Stant Litore, Kelly Cowling, and the Starfest audience.

GHG Starfest panel

GHG Starfest panel

GHG Starfest panel

GHG Starfest panel

GHG Starfest panel

GHG Starfest panel

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In April, GHG hosted several activities at Denver Starfest. Our sing-along was a smash hit, though I do say so myself, especially after audience members pulled out their metaphorical sonic screwdrivers to rapidly repair our technical difficulties. We felt delightful camaraderie with everyone who showed up for our Dwarf Dish Relay and, though everyone was exhausted (or, at least, I was) by the time we made it to our panel on Doctor Who and The Lord of the Rings as Mythology, this did not diminish the fellowship that we managed to create in a single hour.

It was my first time hosting a panel so I made some rookie mistakes. For one, I wish I had allowed more time for audience questions but there was one question that I am not sure we could have answered if we had had all afternoon. A beautiful, clearly creative young woman stood up to confess that she was lonely. She easily makes friends at cons, she explained, but goes home to people who just don’t get her because they don’t get what she loves. We didn’t know her history but I think we could all see her spark.

What do you tell someone who looks like a heroine impatient to find her first adventure?  Mostly, you tell her to wait. You tell her, as a couple of our panel members did, that there are people who, for some reason you cannot put your finger on, will one day get her even if they don’t get her Doctor Who or anime obsession. You can’t tell her anything that will make her feel better in the moment because what she probably needs is to live and learn from living. Some of us go to psychics because we want to hear that everything will be okay but anyone who looks into our hopeful faces can tell us that everything will probably ultimately be okay, even if “okay” comes and goes.

Still, there was something of my own life that I wish I had had the presence of mind to share with this young woman. I don’t know if it would have helped her but sharing it would have helped me. Here it is: How to Make Friends In and Out of Fandom:

Many years ago, I read C.S. Lewis’s Screwtape Letters, a book that still guides my life, but there was one piece of advice that I took in the wrong way–the idea that, if a tiresome old woman wants a few minutes conversation with you, then you are lucky that this is all the service God requires of you. I told myself how lucky I was a hundred times a day and soon my life was filled with the equivalent of tiresome old women and people who cared about me were expressing their concern at how I had lost myself in service. I think I had over-reached my stage of moral development.

Since then, I have tried to discover a way to care about people that also involves something I care about. I no longer flay myself before an ungrateful public which, given my former placement of myself in “the helping profession” and my espoused philosophy, included some unsavory people, indeed. Now, I  start by seeking out the people who like what I like and find that, in taking the step to become a fan, I have already taken care of myself and others.

There are people in Grey Havens Group I never would have met if we did not share an interest but it turns out that our shared interest equals a shared value, no matter how we express it. I believe that God gives us our passions and, in exploring these things we love, we find compassion for others–a lot of compassion! In my experience, if I start by just trying to love someone without concern for what I get out of it, I exhaust myself. I believe that, no matter what we are fans of–whether it is knitting or NASCAR– we are drawn to the higher aspects of it, to what it teaches us about ourselves and our world. George MacDonald wrote that “the world is…the human being turned inside out.” When we reach for something in the world, we are reaching out to each other.

Based on this idea, I am going to make the controversial suggestion that you do not start from a love of people but start from the love of the story or activity that naturally attracts you, then find the people waiting to share that love THEN figure out that everybody loves something and that is what makes them loveable. (For reasons close to my heart, I am working very hard on the NASCAR thing and I think I am making progress but it has taken years.)

No matter what, I think our Starfest friend was on the right track! She is smarter than I was at her age. She knows what she cares about and she is brave enough to stand up and let people know what she wants. The things that bind people together are more important than the personalities, wants or needs of the people themselves. We know ourselves better when we reach out to what we love than when we reach directly into the mystery of who we are. When I watch Star Trek or Doctor Who, I am not just thinking about who I am but about who WE are. I want to find a “we” who wants to be the “us” the Doctor thinks deserves to be saved again and again. I want to see everyone the way he seems to but I am not blessed with his cosmic perspective. For now, I find my answer in GHG, with people whose politics and religion have nothing in common with mine. Honestly, there is not a single person in our group who checks all my “agree” boxes but these are people I love and probably never would have met if we did not passionately adore the same story.

At my best, when I interact with my GHG family, I am not thinking about myself. I am thinking about our story–about how we are all shaped by the thing we all love and how we shape it in turn. It is much bigger and better than any idea we have of it or of ourselves and it spares no room for selfishness but it began in selfishness. It began as a way to find who I love by declaring what I love. I hope everyone who has a passion but feels alone will put out fliers or Facebook announcements asking for companions to watch that next episode, play that next game or read the next book in the series. You are not alone. There are people in your town waiting to love you beginning with a love you already share, a love that defines you more than your worries or habits, a love that is born in the imagination where we are most free to be ourselves.

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